Is love all about reproduction?

Is love all about reproduction?

Yes, was the answer from some friends during dinner few nights ago.

I say, love, helps reproduction but ain't what it is all about.There are many successful animals, plants and bacteria that reproduce just fine without love, in the way that we think of love. We could also reproduce without love, only with lust. Hormones are running high when you lust someone. But lust is not love.

Love is all about emotions; Friendship, bonding, companionship, respect, understanding, healing security. Love is the feeling that makes you fly to the dream-land where everything is possible. Where you sing, smile, where you are happy without a reason, without limitation. Love is when you want to become better, when you take steps forward, when you turn your world around because you found the ultimate feeling of all human feelings and emotions: love. And you feel so damn good about it!

If love is all about reproduction, then, why does it hurt so much when it is not there?

Can you think of how this world would be without love? Can you look back in history or even now, and see what happens because of the lack of love? Because of the unquestionable acceptance of all these theories about life, that cross out our human factor and explain everything via a strict scientific way, where logic is the only criteria? Humans are not only logic. We are not programmed robots that act and react based on mathematical equations and formulas. We have both logic and emotions. The miracle in human beings is the development level of emotions. We are different from any other creation alive, simply because we act and react. We think, we feel. We have our brain but we also have our soul and our heart. 

We will achieve so much better evolutionary results if we reproduce life via the love prisma. 

Our world will be so much more beautiful!

I found that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way

“I heard what you said. I’m not the silly romantic you think. I don’t want the heavens or the shooting stars. I don’t want gemstones or gold. I have those things already. I want…a steady hand. A kind soul. I want to fall asleep, and wake, knowing my heart is safe. I want to love, and be loved. 

Because every heart sings a song, incomplete, until another heart whispers back.

And I know that we don’t agree on much, in fact, we don’t agree on anything, we fight all the time and challenge each other every day. But despite our differences, we have one important thing in common. 

We are crazy about each other. 
And we’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. We have been looking for real love for a long time now....But if you’ve been through enough relationships, through bad relationships, through rough times,  you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way.  You get back the love you think you deserve. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it's got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”

I  found  that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way

The paradox of love

It is weird. We are all looking for love, we are longing to fall in love madly, unconditionally, for ever. We are dreaming about it day and night. We wish for it secretly or openly.
But when love is finally knocking on our door, when it enters our home, when it is here, right in front of us, we do not know what to do with it.
We do not know how to love.
We are afraid even to say the word love.
We say all kind of words, we speak them out loud but "love" is the hardest of all. We whisper it.....in such a way that we can barely hear it.
It is only then, that I realized that love means guts.
You must be brave to love. You must be brave to accept love.
You must be strong to truly feel love. Strong and open.
Not to visualize the ideal love form from a safety distance. But to be there, to fight for it, to work on it, to keep the sparkle alive no matter what, under any circumstances and conditions. You must not be selfish .Love is all about priorities. And in love, priority is a real great life together! Good night, i love you xxx

How to love.......

 how to love

Chronos turned to be my enemy. Vision blurred.  Fear took over.
It is safer to be alone....it is so awesome to be in love, to be loved.
But then again, what about if i fall?
I love you more than anything.
You are my world in my world.
I cannot tell you all those things because you are not used to.
I do not want to scare you.
I only want to love you but i do not know how to love you your way.
Is there your way, my way in love or is it just a way?
When you smile, my whole world is lighting up. Your smile is my lighthouse.
When i see you tired, i want to rub away all your fatigue and worries.
I rub your back and you love it, and in reality I touch your heart, I cover it with love, the love I cannot pronounce because it makes you feel uncomfortable.
Now far from you, I place my arms around your neck, i touch your skin softly, the prints of my lips on yours.
I love you - good night

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Do Not Follow a Path

It is easy, so very easy to follow the path already walked. The way is there.
But then again, you walk over somebody else's steps. There is nothing wrong about it, on the contrary, I would say. Life is so much easier that way. Everything, or almost everything is offered. You are asked to do this little bit day in, day out and that is it.... Which is fine, if it suits you.
But we have also some people who cannot compromise. Who cannot do the ordinary. People who are challenged by life and wish to add their own small print on this earth. These people go where there is no path. Because, easy was not what was promised or expected. Because they have dreams, they are romantic and fighters. These people leave a trail. Small or big, it does not matter. But they do leave a trail and a hope. Hope that we can do it, we can do anything we dream of, we wish for, we work for.
One thing to remember: Change the shoes when they are worn out!